As
with guided imagery, I have a difficult time staying focused while listening to
guided meditation. I can relax much
better when I am simply listening to nature sounds such as ocean waves, a thunderstorm,
a stream, birds, etc. I do this at night sometimes when I can’t seem to relax;
but when a person’s voice is placed over these sounds, it blows my
concentration and focus. This process
works for some people, so I can’t say I would or wouldn’t recommend it to
others, I just know that it doesn’t work for me. I do know that exercising the mind,
practicing kindness and compassion can change the thought process and change
our attitudes. These types of changes require practice because sadly, for most
of us, it isn’t a natural mindset. We
have been raised to be negative, judgmental, and perhaps even cynical. I have several things I do to foster my
psychological health, I have affirmations posted around my living space to
remind me to make healthy choices, I try to keep a journal, (but this is
usually only when I am in a negative frame of mind, it is sort of a purge, once
I get the thoughts out on “paper” they tend to dissipate), and I continually
remind myself to be thankful for all the blessings in my life. One thing that helps me to become centered
and find peace is practicing yoga, it requires so much focus, so much
concentration on what I am doing at that moment, I am forced to give up the
thoughts that crowd my head during the day, for others it may be running, or
working out in other ways, but physical exercise (or even physical work) that
require focus and determination helps still the mind for many people.
My
life and my psychological health are a work in progress, which I believe is
true for everyone, we don’t reach a point where we can stop practicing, because
there are always things in life working against our peacefulness.
Andie have you ever tried to do a meditation exercise with just a nature music selection that you enjoy running in the background. If you knew the steps, such as those listed in the loving-kindness exercise, you could just keep them in mind and run through them while listening to background music. I do like your last remark that no one is perfect and there is always room for improvement.
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